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Post by Finally the Shot HAS COME BACK on Feb 10, 2004 2:31:32 GMT -5
My lil Sis hates barbies, right from the start she liked hwta we liked, Marvel, Transformers...sadly she likes borrowing my BW collection and I always end up with just a little bit less of each, every time thier returned.
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Post by lust on Feb 10, 2004 10:18:11 GMT -5
[glow=purple,2,300]Well, collecting the specialty barbies is one thing. Like the Snow White one and all. But I never did like barbies, of course, I grew up with 5 brothers, I never liked anything girly. But I remember a few years ago when they had that thing going about how barbie's were a bad influence on girls cause these girls would start wanting to look just like barbie with the hair, the boobs, the slim figure...........so the girls would start making themselves throw up all the time to keep from gaining weight, they'd talk about getting boob jobs............It was a big situation out here. But I have other reasons for not wanting Kayla to be "girly" And it has alot to do with the way things are going these days in time. I was at walmart and I was looking at the toddlers clothes. OMG!! They had friggin tube tops and mini skirts for them! What parent in their right mind is gonna let an innocent little child run around wearing such crap? and then they wonder why there's so many older men chasing after or raping young girls. That's another reason I refuse to let Kayla wear dresses. Anything to keep men's minds off her, I will do it. I'm going to be VERY protective over her. Only for her safe and well being though. I want her to be like her mommy. Rough, tough and ready to fight and take no crap from no one! these days in time, that's the only way you can survive.[/glow]
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Post by autobotsdie on Feb 10, 2004 16:07:23 GMT -5
ok i have a good question for ya'll does anybody know the shortest amount of time a woman stayed in the hospital after giving birth?
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Post by DameJinx on Feb 10, 2004 18:36:50 GMT -5
when I had ZuZu almost 3 years ago, I took her home about 30 hrs later... only because my husband was at work and I had to wait for him to come and get me ... the nurses asked me to wait in the hall in a waiting area, because they needed the bed for an urgent patient... but usually they like you gone within 24 hrs if they can... never less... due to any residual drug effects
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Post by heavyassault on Feb 10, 2004 19:06:54 GMT -5
[glow=red,2,300] YO! The worst part of this whole prego things is Lust wont just chill the funk out!She just cant seem to just chiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiillllllllllllllllllllll! FUNK!She wont slow down!I told her I would get off my lazy azz and do something! CRAP![/glow]
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Post by DameJinx on Feb 10, 2004 19:17:35 GMT -5
if she's excessively cleaning and cooking and preparing stuff... she won't be chillin' any time soon I'm afraid .... she'd be in what's called the "nesting stage"... which is exactly that... preparing her "nest" for the new arrival ... which also means that your new one is coming sooner than you think ... stay safe... and keep out of her way... unless she requests it then bend over backwards to do what she needs you to do... but hey, ummm... don't you know this stuff already .... it's not like this is your first child you know
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Post by LittleBot on Feb 10, 2004 19:35:35 GMT -5
You make it sound like HA's life in in danger. Do they have any statistics on how many guys die from having pregnant wives? Those hormones are sounding more dangerous every day.
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Post by DameJinx on Feb 10, 2004 19:50:01 GMT -5
I seriously doubt that any man has died because his wife is pregnant ... unless he's a complete jacka$$ ... then there may be a chance ... but HA seems to be a nice enough guy... I doubt he's got anything to worry about ;D... I just said he, or any father to be, should do as much as possible for their pregnant wife... therefore not causing any problems to pregnant wife or child within... trust me... I'm speaking from experience here... I almost lost ZuZu due to having to vacate the nursery for my mother-in-law to move in ... I was less than a month away from delivery
... did you know that when you are very pregnant... dressers and cribs and other such stuff is heavy to move on your own
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Post by Finally the Shot HAS COME BACK on Feb 11, 2004 3:08:06 GMT -5
And no one helped you?? Dam!
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Post by Aqualec on Feb 11, 2004 7:40:54 GMT -5
k whats the longest labour time?
My mom was in labour for 16 hours with me, and 12 for my Bro. My cousin who had a baby recently, her labour only lasted 2 hours.
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Post by DameJinx on Feb 11, 2004 10:37:55 GMT -5
Sharpy... I do everything myself... that's the only way things get done around here
My labour with Deyved lasted 17&1/2 hrs... and that was hard labour...
With KitKat it started about a week or so before... just slow and constant. Hard labour was about 12 hr...
ZuZu... she was the worst... only because I went into labour 2&1/2 months early due to an overpowering dog... I was 2cm dialated... labour was relatively constant from that point on, just slowed way down. I was still in heavy labour pain the whole time though... but the actual birthing labour came on strong around midnight and by 6:47am she was born... I only had 1/2 hr at the hospital before she was born though ... if we had left any later ... she would have been born at the side of the road on the way
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Post by Aqualec on Feb 11, 2004 10:41:39 GMT -5
lucky you got to the hospital in time.
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Post by lust on Feb 11, 2004 11:28:46 GMT -5
[glow=purple,2,300]Well, I must say I've fallen a bit behind. Thanks to a certain somebody. But we won't say who. Anyway, I can relate to a few things that have been said. As for HA's comment, he doesn't understand that I can't just chill. When he's at work all day long, Not only do I have to take care of the house, but I have Kayla as well. I can't just very well lay on the couch all day watchin TV like he wants me to. Dishes need to be washed, because he's already made it clear for 5 years now that he IS NOT washing dishes. Laundry has to be done. He's not gonna do it. Kayla's messes have to be cleaned up. I can't leave food and crumbs and juice spills on the floor all day and let her and the animals run around in it. The animals need to be fed, kayla needs to be fed, changed, and time spent with her. HA made a comment last night about me locking kayla in her room so I could lay on the couch and watch tv all day and not be bothered. I AM NOT locking my child, especially a 2 year old, in her room all day. That's just not right. And like Jinx, the only way anything is gonna get done around here is If I do it. He said it best when he said, "my lazy azz". He wants me to chill out, well, how can I chill out when as soon as he comes home, he takes 5 minutes to talk to me before Rushing over to his sisters to get high, then comes back and jumps online and sits here all night. Yeah! That's really helping me out! And as far as him knowing about all this pregnancy stuff, forget about it. During Kayla's pregnancy, HA wasn't all there. He was too busy worrying about anything and everything that didn't have to do with me. Sad, but true. I just want to hurry up and have this kid cause it's tearin up my nerves and it seems here lately that every little thing ticks me off or gets on my nerves and I'm stressing about everything! It's really starting to suck. It wouldn't be so bad if HA was around more. When he's here, he's not really here. So, I guess you can say I'm pretty much toughing out this whole pregnancy on my own. Not once have I gotten my feet rubbed or my back or shoulders massaged. I am so dang tense right now it's not funny. Oh well, only a couple more weeks or less to go. It'll be over soon enough. Remind me to not do this again.................[/glow]
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Post by DameJinx on Feb 11, 2004 11:38:41 GMT -5
honey... I've been there... more than once... done that more than once... and stupidly bought the t-shirt... more than once ... you and I have so much in common it's almost frightening... I wish I could help you out some way... let me know if there is anything I can do for you... even though we are miles away
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Post by lust on Feb 11, 2004 11:41:34 GMT -5
[glow=purple,2,300]Thanks alot jinxy, but I'm afraid there's nothing anyone can do anymore at the moment.
All I can do it just wait. It seems like a dang eternity. [/glow]
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