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Post by DameJinx on Apr 13, 2004 14:54:27 GMT -5
here's the story.. short form...
TA's birthday is coming up soon and tonight we are to have an impromtu party with my sister being here...
now here's my problem......
I just found out, as did he, that one of his TKD instructor just died with his 6 year old son on Easter Sunday in a horrible car accident...
I don't know if I should cancel the party tonight and take him to his regular cla$$ or if I should just go on with the party....
any advise would be much appreciated... and as soon as possible... please....?? ok... forget it now... TA's just called me and wants to continue on with the dinner........... he's decided to deal with it all on Thursday.... thanks anyway....
*leaves to finish bustin' my but to finish dinner, and dessert and decorations........ *
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Post by the_downward_spiral on Apr 14, 2004 4:23:24 GMT -5
Thats terrible.
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Post by latyrx7 on Apr 14, 2004 8:58:39 GMT -5
[glow=blue,2,000]Hows my little buddy taking it?[/glow]
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Post by DameJinx on Apr 14, 2004 10:25:07 GMT -5
he's pretty upset... spent most of last night clung to me.. .and this am so far too...... I'm not sure how to comfort him anymore...
we are going to the viewing on Friday eve and the Funeral ma$$ is on Saturday... so I guess that's the real test....
he's said he's going to work harder on his Staff Technique, in honour of Mr Ong
and both TKD troups are setting up a trust fund for his surviving children, and wife...
the sadest part was that they were on their way to his youngest's baptism when they were sideswiped by a semitruck... himself and his 6 year old son were killed instantly, his 12 year old daughter has serious head injuries and may need a second surgery... his youngest is only 6 months old.....
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Post by Finally the Shot HAS COME BACK on Apr 14, 2004 13:05:50 GMT -5
That's awful, I really hope his wife manages. And TA is not to upset gets over it
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Post by latyrx7 on Apr 15, 2004 23:37:27 GMT -5
[glow=blue,2,000]Want me to talk to him?[/glow]
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Post by DameJinx on Apr 17, 2004 1:33:44 GMT -5
that's not a bad idea, L7... let's wait till after the funeral though... it would be more helpful I think...
thanks everyone... much love and appreciation
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